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Roadmap for 2017 + My 24th Year

Happy birthday to me, happy birthday to me!!! 
Today, I am 24. I am taking the day off from work, sleeping in a bit, making myself a delicious breakfast, going to the gym, getting a massage, and teaching a dance class. Woo!

Since my birthday is so close to NYE, I'm going to combine my goals/bucket list/resolutions for the new year with my ambitions for my 24th year of life. All smashed together into one big shmorgasborg of a shit ton of things I want to get done in 2017.

2016 was a failed year. I hate to be dramatic, but it feels that way in retrospect. I did accomplish some things, try out some new stuff, and see some new places. But all in all, I felt unbelievable stagnant. I like to keep things positive, but it is what it is.



ON TO THE NEXT ONE. 

The mottos: 


The poetic approach:
The same time will go by and where will you be?
yearning for more or finally free...


Here is a list all the non-time-sensitive things I want to accomplish, try, fail at, see, do, experience, and test out in the next 365 days of approaching closer and closer to my quarter life crisis. I may write these down on a giant poster board and hang them in my room, but there's no precise time table for getting these done, I just want to eventually (this year!)

1. Do a polar plunge.
2. Participate in a Whole 30 eating plan.
3. Attend a gay pride event. 
4. Train for and complete a 10k.
5. Have someone perform Reiki on me. 
6. Take a professional dance class. 
7. Go hiking in Vermont. 
8. Take an aerial Yoga class.
9. Distribute hot cocoa and coffee to crossing guards in the winter. 
10. Go to an outdoor concert (I didn't go to a single one in 2017!)


YEAR LONG, ON-GOING GOALS: 

  • Take a short video every day of the year, to create a 365 second long 1SE video.
  • Dance once a week and record myself improvising to all of my favorite songs. Compile the video. Witness the growth. 
  • Get out of cc debt (or as close as possible). 
  • Stretching and yoga, to me, is the truest form of self-care. Implement as often as possible. 
  • Eat clean clean and cleaner still. You can do it, biotch. 
  • Take deeper freakin' breaths. Pause before speaking. Radiate the light you know is inside of you, daily. 


GOALS SPECIFIC TO MONTHS: 

January - apply to freakin' grad school. 

February - surprise L with a Valentine's Day homemade meal or sappy present because I am a weak, weak person. 

March - go to a St. Paddy's Day parade, visit Aunt Natalie in Atlanta and take a day trip to Savannah, GA!

April - start training for a 10K, hopefully decide where I am going to grad school!!! 

May - start process of apartment hunting. 

June - complete a 10K.

July - go to a super fun 4th of July event, with fireworks and sparklers! 

August - decide where I am going to be living for the next indeterminate number of years, move there, either travel internationally or compete an intensive 2-week yoga teacher training course in Costa Rica or somewhere equally unbelievable. 

September - start grad school (!!!!)

October - celebrate Halloween either Boston-style or Pumpkin Fest-style in Keene, NH. All depends on where I decide for grad school. 

November - Go home for Thanksgiving and write down at least one thing I'm grateful for each day for the whole month. 

December - Bake 1,000 Christmas cookies, volunteer my time at a shelter of some kind, see the Rockette's Christmas Spectacular.

This is 100x more intense year planning than what I did in 2016 so I'm hoping and praying that this year goes according to plan. Of course, with a little wiggle room for spontaneity :)

Cheers to a new year, new beginnings, new chances, and 365 opportunities to make it count. 

The ULTIMATE Winter Bucket List

I don't really believe in being bored. For any given season there are literally thousands of things you can do to get festive, get in the spirit, or entertain yourself! I write these little bucket lists, not just for other people, but as a reminder to myself that there are a ton of fun things I can do to appreciate whatever season I'm in. For years I have hated winter (hey, thanks SAD), but there are still so many fun things to do this season. Especially in the spirit of CHRISTMAS. So here are some ideas of what to do, eat, drink, listen to, watch, and make this winter season. :)


TO DO:
  • do a polar plunge
  • mush with sled dogs (there's a Groupon for this near me!)
  • attend a Santa Con
  • go to a tree lighting ceremony
  • go ice skating outdoors
  • go sledding with whatever you can slide on (trashbags work great on packed snow)
  • invest in some good snow boots
  • plan a getaway for March, right when you're getting super fed up with the snow/cold
  • go snow shoe-ing
  • have a cozy movie/game night in with friends
  • catch snowflakes on your tongue


TO EAT/DRINK:
  • unlimited Christmas cookies
  • gingergread houses
  • eggnog
  • Bailey's in your hot chocolate
  • Starbucks delicious selections (my fav is peppermint mocha)
  • snowcream
  • Celestial Seasonings Sugar Cookie Sleigh Ride tea
  • candy canes
  • comfort food (broccoli & cheddar soup, anyone?)


TO WATCH/LISTEN TO:
  • the Rockette's Christmas Spectacular
  • a Nutcracker ballet
  • both versions of How the Grinch Stole Christmas
  • Ariana Grande's super sassy Christmas album
  • all of the Yuletide classics on Pandora radio stations
  • my absolute favorite seasonal movie, A Christmas Story
  • Cirque Du Soleil's holiday show
  • the 25 days of Christmas on Freeform
  • the first (or second, or third) snowfall
  • the entire Harry Potter movie franchise
  • an audiobook you've been wanting to get around to 


TO MAKE:
  • paper snowflakes
  • 100 Christmas cookies
  • hot chocolate for traffic cops and crossing guards
  • new ornaments for your tree
  • a personalized Christmas playlist
  • hot chocolate dipping spoons
  • a DIY holiday manicure
  • a snowman!
  • a fire in the fireplace
  • a road map of your 2017 plans

I'll definitely be doing as many of these ideas as I can fit into my Christmas season and my winter. Let me know if you have any cool ones that I haven't thought of! 

P.S. if you missed it, I also did a pretty cool ultimate bucket list for autumn. Check it! 

The ULTIMATE Autumn Bucket List!

I have a love hate relationship with this season. Hate the allergies and chilly temperatures. Love the colors, the holidays, and the delicious food! I really strive to make the most of every month and every season, so I put a lot of myself into this list but I think there's a lot here for everyone wanting to bring some magic to their autumn.

Here are 60 bucket list ideas for things to do, see, listen to, eat, drink, & make this autumn (September through November)!



1. Go to a Fall festival. If you live in New England & aren't going to The Big E, are you even alive? It's the ultimate New England autumn event; rides, games, a disgusting amount of novelty food, vendors, you name it and it's here. Pro tip: fast for the whole day and eat clean for a week afterwards.

2. Go hiking when the leaves are changing colors. 

3. Put a bouquet of sunflowers on your kitchen table or on your porch. 

4. Get lost with you friends/love in a corn maze. Even better if you bring a big group & split into teams!

5. Sign up for an autumn 5K or marathon! The Hartford Marathon is a big one near where I live that everyone gets so excited for. These are the 15 best fall marathons in the U.S. but there's definitely one going on near you.

6. Scent your spaces in all things Fall. I need to get some B&BW wallflowers asap; scents like pumpkin caramel latte and pumpkin apple cider are great, but I prefer something a little more subtle like crisp morning air and sweater weather.

7. Dig out your boots and your chunkiest, most cozy sweaters. 

8. Mimic spring cleaning with a "fall cleaning" spree. Pack away all the bathing suits, shorts, and flimsy tank tops. It's long sleeve season my friends. Donate or get rid of any summer clothes you didn't wear once (I am guilty as charged).

9. Go dollar store shopping for decorations. Dollar Tree is the best! Grab some orange, red and gold helium balloons, fabric autumn leaves, felt leaf cut-outs, and an autumnal table cloth. All for $1 each! Repeat for Halloween and Thanksgiving decor, of course.

10. Visit Salem, MA if you live in the area. The Salem Witch Trials utterly fascinate me, so I plan to take a trip up there this year, complete with a witch tour!

11. Re-read the Harry Potter series. There is nothing quite like the seasonal chapters in Harry Potter books. They are the definition of my childhood autumns and winters.

12. Tremble your way through a haunted house. Or if you're really daring, a haunted trail! I went to Trail of Terrors last year & stumbled through it with my eyes closed the entire time... so this one might not be for me, hah!

13. Have a basic bitch photoshoot in a pumpkin patch! 

14. Celebrate Halloween! Go to or host a Halloween party or just hit up your nearest bar for festivities. Try and win a costume contest! Take some kiddies trick-or-treating. I freakin' love this spooky holiday, there are so many ways to get in the spirit!

15. Wear pink for breast cancer awareness month every day in October! Better yet, sign up for an awareness walk/marathon going on near you, or donate to one of your friends who is participating.

16. Give back! Donate to or volunteer your time to a homeless shelter/kitchen around the Thanksgiving holiday. I've never personally done this, but if there is any year to, it is this year. The world needs more love and generosity now more than ever.


1. Get boozy with apples. Try out one of these 21 apple cider cocktails! They literally all sound amazing, but I'm pretty partial to Apple Cider Sangria.

2. Order a pumpkin spice latter from DD, of course! It may be basic, but it's popular for a reason. So delicious.

3. Grab a bag of freshly baked, warm and delicious apple fritters from your local cider mill! 

4. Try something a little new, like this pumpkin spice hot chocolate.
Fall classic + winter staple = deliciousness? We'll see!

5. Food to scour out at The Big E: Maine baked potato, Vermont maple candy and cheese, fried Oreos, giant cream puff, loaded mac&cheese from Zack's Mac Attack in the New Hampshire building, apple cider donuts, and GIANT turkey legs (I'm talking GIANT). I told you it's best to fast before you go!

6. Seasonal smoothie time! Try this healthy apple cinnamon or pumpkin spice smoothie after you annihilate your digestive system with all those fried and fatty foods at your nearest fall fair.

7. Bring a box of apple cinnamon donuts to work for your co-workers.

8. Nothing screams fall quite like warm apple pie topped with melting vanilla ice cream and whipped cream. Yum!

9. Cut sandwiches into leaf shapes with a cookie cutter to get your boring lunch into the autumn spirit.

10. Pumpkin ale! Shipyard is a fav.

11. Make some easy peasy ghost marshmallows for a Halloween party. There are a ton of variations, just Google it!

12. Black charcoal water tastes just like regular water but is perfect for a creepy Halloween beverage!

13. Make guacamole puke out of a pumpkin or mummy dogs! There's a ton more easy Halloween recipes/snack ideas here!

14. Bite into a big 'ol caramel apple. They're a hell of a mess, but damn they're good.

15. Bake these 5-ingredient apple pie roses. Bring them to Thanksgiving dinner. Impress the hell out of your friends and family members.


1. The Altar, the second album by my favorite musician in the whole damn world Banks. It drops September 30th!

2. Seasonal playlists on Spotify. Search for Autumn Leaves, Autumn (Or What It Feels Like To Fall), Your Favorite Coffeehouse, and Autumn Afternoon - or just the word "autumn" and you'll have thousands of mellow playlists at your fingertips!

3. Watch a movie to get you in a cozy autumn mood. My favorites by far are Dan In Real Life, Catch & Release, Where The Wild Things Are, and Garden State.

4. Charlie Brown movies. There are a whole lot of autumnal Charlie Brown movies in the mix, but my absolute favorite will always be The Great Pumpkin Charlie Brown. This teleports me back to 1999 - sitting on the couch in my little Halloween costume, watching this movie as a little kid pre-game to an epic trick or treating journey.

5. Have a Harry Potter movie marathon. Gives me the same feels as the Charlie Brown movies, but back to those teenage years instead.

6. A true-life crime podcast to put you in a Halloween mood. I suggest Sword & Scale, or the widely popular Serial! Another scary one about all things occult is Here Be Monsters. 

7. Spook yourself with a scary movie like The Conjuring 2! (But rest assured, I myself will never watch this).

8. Try out a Halloween themed work-out playlist on your commute or during those cardio intervals!

9. Watch Stranger Things on Netflix! If you live under a rock and haven't binged this yet with the rest of us, this is the perfect spooky show for October! (Season 2 drops in January!)

10. Try to find those original Halloween Disney movies. Don't Look Under The Bed, the Halloweentown series, and Mom's Got A Date With A Vampire are my favorites!

11. Other favorite Halloween movies from years past include: Hocus Pocus (duh!), The Little Vampire, and Nightmare Before Christmas. I haven't watched The Little Vampire since I was a kid but I remember it being TERRIFYING.

12. Catch a real-life ghost show, like Paranormal Adventures, Ghost Hunters, or just Long Island Medium if you're a little bit of a sissy like me ;)

13. Watch the sunrise & watch the sunset. At least once, against that beautiful backdrop of maroon, russet, and golden trees.

14. In case you need some more music, here are 41 songs to fall in love with this fall

15. Watch the Macy's Thanksgiving Day Parade, of course!



1. Make leaf art. Gather leaves from the great outdoors and turn them into works of art!

2. Make your very own autumn bucket list! 

3. Your ultimate cozy autumn day playlist. I did give you some suggestions above, but try to personalize your own coffee sipping, sweater wearing, candle lighting mix tape!

4. DIY your own autumn candles!

5. Whip up a brown sugar lip scrub. My skin does this nice thing where it turns into a flaky disaster as soon as temperatures drop below 70 degrees. Brown sugar + coconut oil is a great natural concoction for dry lips.

6. Treat yourself to a face mask or hair mask with natural seasonal pumpkin ingredients!

7. DIY a Halloween costume. I have about a million ideas for this (being a self-proclaimed master of DIY Halloween costumes), coming up in a future blog post! Stay tuned!

8. Carve a pumpkin! Or do anything you damn well please with a pumpkin. The options are endless! Here are some no-carving-needed options.

9. Make a spooky Halloween bouquet. Like #1 on this spooky decor list!

10. Give yourself a Halloween nail art manicure. Or just buy some ghoulish nail stickers and tell everyone you DIYed it ;)

11. Make a Thanksgiving list for all the things you're thankful for. Better yet, write a letter to each of your friends and family members of all the things you are grateful for about them. Getting something like this would definitely make me smile-cry. In an effort to honor one of my New Year's resolutions about appreciating my friends & family members more, I may just try this out myself.

12. DIY natural de-froster. Keep it in your car and instantly spray away icy windows during those chilly mornings and those first few frosts of the year. They're right around the corner! Best to be prepared.

13. Make some good old-fashioned turkey hands out of construction paper! You're honestly never too old for this. My college dorm-mates decorated our entire hallway with turkey hands our sophomore year!

14. Join me for DIY Christmas! This Christmas, I'm attempting to make only hand made gifts for my friends and family members. Prep early this fall by pinning the heck out of DIY ideas and gathering supplies.

15. Make your Christmas wish list! 




What are some of your must-do bucket listers for fall?
Do you jump on the pumpkin spice bandwagon like the rest of us?
How will you bring some magic to your season?

Leave a comment, it means so much for me to actively engage with anyone awesome enough to start a conversation on this blog!

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my butterfly garden experience!

I have quite a lot of bucket list ideas that I want to accomplish in my life, many of which require years of planning and money saving. I've been chipping away at the smaller ones, the ones that can be accomplished in a day trip or a weekend. These are so much easier to experience, but ultimately no less satisfying than a European road trip or a Mediterranean cruise (at least in my opinion!)

Last weekend I brought Lucas, my mom, and one of my best friends Shawn to a butterfly sanctuary in South Deerfield, MA called Magic Wings


This was an awesome experience. Tickets were only $14 and I got a $4 discount with my student ID. The ride there was only about an hour and we blasted Beyonce the entire way, so the ride went by really quickly! (I discovered that my favorite songs off of Lemonade are Hold Up, Sorry, 6 Inch, and Freedom. Ugh, so good!) 

Once we entered, there was one room that was devoted to different insects, snakes and frogs. Basically everything tropical except the butterflies. My main focus was the butterflies but this section was still neat to observe. 


I was captivated by all the cocoons and even got to see a butterfly hatch right before my eyes! The gift shop had little clear cups with caterpillars in them that you could take home! I thought that this was fascinating for some reason. Even though I remember having a caterpillar garden as a kid... I find it so strange to raise caterpillars and then set the butterfly free once it hatches! 


Once we entered the main butterfly area, it was freaking breathtaking. I believe that the sanctuary itself is 8,000 square feet and there are over 4,000 butterflies in it. I was actually a little bit scared at first! It's startling because the air is dense with so many butterflies, and you think that they're definitely bound to land all over you. The sad truth is, not single butterfly landed on any of us. 


We did get to pet this awesome lizard as it took a bath though! My friend Shawn is hilarious about reptiles. He loves them as much as regular people love cats and dogs. 


We wound our way through the twisty trails of tropical wild life and flowers and plants. Butterflies landed on these little sugar feeders, which we found out afterwards that we could have purchased ourselves in the gift shop. 


Not only were there a ton of butterflies, tropical flowers, and water fountains, there were a ton of reptiles, fat birds running all over the ground, a parrot, finches, and HUMMINGBIRDS! The hummingbirds were so fast, but we did manage to sneak a peak before they zoomed off across the sanctuary. 


The gazebo areas were strung with these adorable Christmas lights, which added to the magical feeling! 


There were butterfly statues and hanging sculptures all around the sanctuary too. After walking around the paths of the garden several times, delighted every time we saw a bright Monarch or one of the bigger electric blue butterflies (which I appropriately nicknamed Mr. Blue), we walked through the exit and straight to a little stand claiming they had 50+ flavors of soft serve.

Coconut + German chocolate, blackberry + cheesecake, + pistachio, and peach were our flavors of choice. We nommed on these while walking around some outdoor gardens (if I didn't mention before, the main area of butterflies was all indoors, so it's rain or shine!)

We left shortly after, and a lot of us slept on the way home. It was such a magical experience! I highly recommend a butterfly garden to add to your bucket list if you've never been before. Even if you're afraid of butterflies, because I thought I was (and so did Lucas!) but we ended up having an amazing time.


Have you ever been to a butterfly garden?
What's a day trip idea off your own bucket list? 

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