Weekend wraparound

I was doing so well blogging every weekday that I'm actually pissed I missed my usual Friday Five post, and was also too busy this weekend to do a Saturday Six, or even a Sunday Seven...

But, here's what I was up to this weekend!

FRIDAY, CAR SHOPPING. 

My boyfriend took me to this cool dealership where there are a bunch of pre-owned cars on a big lot and all of them are unlocked! So instead of a sketchy dealer trying to sell you a car, you can walk around, go inside cars, and pick out which one you want. All the cars have numbers on the windshield and they give you a spreadsheet so you can see their mileage and how much they cost. After a brief search, I found my baby...


Isn't she beautiful???

She's a 2013 Honda Civic LX with about 28,000 miles on her. I wanted to take her home right away but I need to get approved through Bank of America for a bigger loan (merp) and they need to detail her and clean her up and put four new tires on her for me. I don't know when I decided that this is a girl car, I might change my mind once I ride her around for a little while. But I pick her up on Tuesday and then I can decide her official gender and most importantly, what to name her. 

This is a very big deal for me, because while I've only had my license for about two years now (I know, it's pathetic) I have never had a car just be mine. My first car was a hand-me-down from my mom, the second was a hand-me-down from my little brother. This car is ALL MINE. I can't wait to take her through the drive through, vacuum her, get some car spray and little car wipeys for her... taking care of a car means so much more when it actually has your name on it, ya know?

SATURDAY WAS FOR DANCING. 

Saturday I had a dance rehearsal in Rhode Island for a project that I'm working on with two of my previous dance professors called "Little Bed, Big Dreams". We performed the piece (I don't want to say dance because it had a lot of dialogue in it, so it was kind of like a play) back in October, so I was worried we weren't going to remember anything! But muscle memory is an amazing thing. We actually remember almost all of it!


Funny story about my Saturday rehearsal:
Because I thought I was going to get my car on Friday, I had no car to drive to Rhode Island. L has pretty bad anxiety about me driving, and there was no way my old 1998 Honda was going to make it there and back, so he kind of coerced my mom to go with me in her car. LOL. So it was a mother-daughter Rhode Island road trip, even though she kind of complained the whole way. Well, not the whole way. She took a walk around the campus and read magazines in the car during my rehearsal. And she's a bit of a passenger seat driver, but talking with her did help the time to go by much quicker. Thanks mom!

When we got home, my mom made the most delicious lemon and rosemary chicken, brown rice with quinoa, and roasted green beans with parmesan and breadcrumbs.


I was actually so proud of her for making a healthy and balanced dinner since hers are usually LOADED with carbs and absent of vegetables. And the chicken was AMAZE. I think she just grilled it with olive oil, lemon juice, and rosemary, but I'll ask another time.

Lucas and I were so tired after our long Saturdays (he had class and I had this whole Rhode Island thing) that we just snuggled in bed and passed out super early on Saturday night. We were invited to a party but since we're both 85 years old, we fell asleep while texting our friends that were there. lolz.

SUNDAY = MOVIE DAY. 

Sunday was a hard core movie day with a random trip to Sephora thrown in. We watched a free On Demand movie called Charlie Bartlett in my living room in the morning. It was a cute, high school-esque movie that reminded me a little bit of Juno or Nick & Norah's Infinite Playlist. A quirky yet absurdly rich high school boy wants everyone to like him so he starts his own psychiatry practice in the boys bathroom. I actually liked it, despite it being a little bit cheesy. It made me feel young again hah!


Then we stopped at Sephora because I DESPERATELY needed new face moisturizer. And let me tell you something:

NEVER LOSE A SEPHORA GIFT CARD.

Those things are priceless. They are gold. They are invaluable.

Because even with the original receipt, they have to email it to their corporate offices and won't get back to me until 1-2 weeks. WEEKS. And I needed face lotion in that exact moment, can't wait any longer, sorry! So I ended up spending fifty-two of my own, hard earned dollars. I did, however, have a 10% off coupon emailed to me (VIB perks, mwahahah), which goes a longggg way at Sephoar! So I ended up with the Clinique Moisture Surge or something or other, and this super spring mint green Formula X polish, basically for free! Will get back to this blog on reviews on these things...

Then we went to the movie theatre, which I actually had TWO free passes for hanging around since last Christmas! We saw London Has Fallen, which L picked out. I was a littleeeee skeptical because he loves war, action, and horror movies (which I HATE) but it was actually very exciting, kept me engaged the whole time, didn't have TOO much gore or gun violence (...well ok, it had a ton). But it reminded me of the Taken series, which I do like a lot, because it's all about the President being hunted and held captive, and his private agent of the Secret Service, being a total bamf and going to save him.



It was actually a really good date movie, because it was very suspenseful so we snuggled and held hands the wholeeee time. Cute af.

Quick confession though: 
I ate almost an entire bag of popcorn and felt like SHIT afterwards.

After the movie we headed home and went to sleep soon afterwards. This weekend literally went by so quick, it's like I blinked and it was Monday again. And I have another jam packed week ahead of me, so I hope I'm mentally prepared. Next weekend L and I are taking a little trip to Newport because I have another rehearsal on Sunday morning, so we're staying overnight on Saturday. I still have to book the hotel but I'm definitely pumped for that!

What was the best part of your weekend?
What was the worst thing you ate this weekend?
How did you treat yourself this weekend (because it's so important to do this!)?

Spotlight: A favorite beauty guru

I am obsessedddddddd with Youtube. It used to be much worse. I used to have like 120 subscriptions and I'd have to watch ALL of their videos. I keep it to a minimal now. But whenever I want to escape for a little bit, or feel like I'm chatting about makeup with one of my own lady friends, I watch one of my favorite beauty gurus. And RachhLoves is definitely one of them.


She is such a sweet, positive force in the world of the internet. I love her constant hot pink lipstick, her Pinterest hack videos, her editing, and how she always features a huge selection of drugstore products. She's also FUNNY, doesn't take herself too seriously, and seems like someone I'd want to be friends with. Watching her videos brightens up my day. Check her out! 

What I don't feel like writing about today

I don't feel like writing today, but I have to write anyways because it's a weekday and I have a blog post writing schedule to follow, after all. I can't just throw all of my plans to the wind because I'm not feelin' it for one day (or two or three or four).

I don't feel like writing about how excited I am to get a car because the more it gets pushed back, the less I feel like I'm going to be able to secure this one beautiful little car that I really want and I don't feel like writing about how disappointed I am that my boyfriend keeps telling me he's going to bring me but then he doesn't.

I don't feel like writing about my boyfriend and our perfect relationship because it isn't. It isn't perfect. It's not even close. We love each other and we don't even really understand why because we seem so incompatible sometimes.

I don't feel like writing about my health and fitness plans because my main goal for March was to walk 10,000 steps every day and I've already fucked that up because I didn't work out or go for a walk yesterday. Barely hit 8,000. I haven't eaten a single item of processed sugar though, so at least I have one thing to be proud of myself about.

I don't feel like writing about my travel plans because I don't have any. That's a side effect of purging your bank account and almost all of your savings in order to buy a car, which, OH WAIT, I don't have one yet.

I don't feel like writing about my friends because their lives all seem so much lighter and happier than mine. They're unburdened. They're living their lives however they want to, without anyone telling them what to do.

I don't feel like writing about my future plans because I don't know what they are. I have plans but I'm not actively working towards them. I don't have time, or energy to give. All my energy is being directed in other places. All my time is taken up by other things.

Ugh. Bad day.

The Happiness List


Realistic March Goals

AH, THE FRESHNESS THAT COMES WITH THE BEGINNING OF A NEW MONTH.

Happy March! It's sad how happy I've been to get a fresh start these past few months. The beginning has promise but by the end it's turned sour. Crossing my fingers this doesn't happen again this month.

For starters, lemme recap how I did for February's goal:

1. Buy a vehicle. This is ESSENTIAL. Well, I haven't actually BOUGHT a vehicle yet, but I have the cash pulled out of my bank account, have done mad research, test drove a car, and have 2+ appointments for this Wednesday, so this is promising!
2. Create a realistic and maintainable budget on paper/in excel format so that I can hold myself accountable to every penny I spend. I'mma be completely honest, I didn't work on this at all.
3. Read my three new books; The Body Book by Cameron Diaz, Big Little Lies by Liane Moriarty, and You Are a Badass: How to Stop Doubting Your Greatness and Start Living an Awesome Life by Jen Sincero. I only started reading Big Little Lies but I'm actually almost done and it's SO FREAKING GOOD. Like, I need to write a review and read all her other books.
4. Do something cute, hand-made, and special for my sweetie for Valentine’s Day. I made the CUTEST HANDMADE CARD. And then also bought $200 concert tickets for his birthday...
5. Get a move on in this blog – set it up on Bloglovin’, figure out what the heck an RSS feed is, try to get comments enabled and a newsletter – generally a giant list of things I have absolutely no idea how to do. (FYI: This blog is never going to have one of those fancy headers called “Blog Resources” like most successful blogs do because I don’t know the difference between CSS and SEO… so there’s that). I may not have any followers or readers but DAMNIT I'm proud of how good this blog looks and how many things I've done for it.
6. In the theme of Valentine’s Day pampering, take care of MYSELF more. I've done my nails twice this month, plus a coconut oil hair treatment. #pampered #blessed
7. Pass Spinning certification and get assigned at least one Spin class to teach at the gym I work at! So I haven't passed the online exam yet (on the to-do list for Thursday) but I did complete the workshop and have started making Spin profiles! 

So I didn't do TOO badly!
I always make super crazy goals for myself that I know I probably won't be able to accomplish, ugh. With all that being said, here are my semi-realistic goals for March!!!



1. Buy a vehicle. I MEAN IT THIS TIME.
2. Eat clean. Don't eat a single item of processed sugar. Not a single one. When the temptation strikes, eat fruit or drink tea or make a smoothie.
3. Be active AF. Hit daily step goal every single day. Go for a walk outside every day that it's nice out.
4. Get your read on. Finish reading Big Little Lies and then really dive into The Body Book.
5. Be proactive. Plan out breakfast, lunch, and dinner for the entire month. 
6. Out with the old. Spring clean my room and my closet. Donate/sell anything that I haven't worn in a year/that doesn't fit in with my current personal style. 
7. You are #1. Continue to take care of myself because it felt damn good. Do my nails. Treat my hair. Shave my legs more often... GET A MASSAGE. 
8. Try something new! Take a Zumba class, a Yoga class, and a Bootcamp style class booked through my amazing new fitness find, the MindBody app. 

YOU CAN DO IT.